How Do You Tell Your Cat You Love Them

Have you ever wondered how do you tell your Cat you love them in their own language?

I mean you want to tell them and show them how much you adore them and love them but don’t know how to

As Cat parents we are crazy about our cats

And who cares what others think

Cats rule!

And if you are anything like me, your love for your Cat has no limits

They’re so adorable and cuddly

Just as any Cat parent, we all want our little kitties to know and understand how much we love them

But the downside is, they don’t understand our human language

So I guess telling them how much we love them may not be enough.

Want to know the best part?

I’m going to give you 5 awesome tips you can follow to make sure your Kitty knows how you feel

Carry on reading and let’s get straight into it

How do you tell your cat you love them

1 – Cat Nap 

Letting your Cat sleep with you can be a way of showing your Cat you love them and trust them.

This is because when a Cat usually sleeps around you then this is a way for your Cat showing you that he loves trusts you and loves you.

You see, when your Cat is that comfortable with you then they are being at their most vulnerable near you.

I’m not saying to let your Cat sleep with you all the time although they are like a purring hot water bag!

To be honest with you, I love it when my Cat sleeps beside me or on my chest!

They’re so warm especially on a cold night

If you’re sleeping on the couch and just resting, then let your Cat sleep with you and maybe take a “Cat Nap” with your Cat

This will make your kitty feel the love you are showing them because you both trust each other.

2 – Session in grooming your cat

Cats are naturally clean themselves as they already spend around 30% of their life grooming themselves! But don’t rule out the fact they your little kittie will appreciate you grooming them and giving them a hand especially if they have long fur.

Stroking them and brushing their fur will be appreciated by your Cat.

What I do is, I stroke my Cat behind the ears or under the chin which they love because it’s the hard to reach areas.

Why not give it a go and see how much your Cat will love it!

3 – Slow blink at your Cat 

Has your Cat ever slowly blinked at you?

Ever wondered what that means?

Let me tell you

When a Cat slowly blinks at you, it’s their way of saying “I trust you so much that I will close my eyes in your presence. I’m very relaxed around you and feel happy”

That’s what it basically means.


You see Cats are predators and also can be a prey too so when they close their eyes in front you it is showing that the trust you so much when they are at their most vulnerable.

It’s literally a way of your Cat saying to you “I love you”

So you can see how much of a big deal this is to your Cat

Next time you see your Cat slowly blinking at you then return the gesture with a slow blink

This way you’re returning that same affection and letting your Cat know you feel the same way towards them!

What a great way of showing our Kitty how much we love them!

Go on, give it a go and let me know in the comments if you have

4 – Spend time with your Cat and play with him 

If you want to build a strong bond with your Cat and show how much you love your Cat then playing with them is a absolute must

I’m not saying play with them for hours and hours

10 – 15 minutes a day will be suffice

You see, Cats are natural hunters.

They are predators and love pouncing and chasing things

Your Cat have these feel good hormones which is called endorphin.

When you play with your Cat this hormone is released and it helps them burn off all that energy they have. Especially if they are a kitten. (They have tons of energy)

Playing with your Cat will also help your Cat less likely to get stressed

10 – 15 minutes a day will keep your Cat Healthy, Happy and ultimately your best friend

5 – Give them Cat treats

Don’t even get me started on how much my little kitty demands Cat treats!

I mean Cats love them

And they will do anything to have one.

This is a really great way to show your Cat how much you love them.

Give them treats here and there and show them some affection when you do.

It will create a ever lasting bond

In Conclusion

If you follow these 5 steps then I’m sure the bond between you and your Cat will definitely increase.

Your kitty will surely understand how much you love them

It’s important as Cat parents to show our Cats how much we love them

They want to feel loved just as we do.

In reality Cats and humans do not speak the same language

So as Cat parents we need to understand our Cat and speak their language.

That way we can build that strong connection with them

How can we learn or speak Cat language and build that connection?

You should check out Cat Language Bible

You can find out what it is all about in my article What is Cat Language Bible (Does it really work?)

It’s a awesome book that helps you understand your Cat and speak to them too

This guide teaches you how you can actually hold a conversation with your Cat

You can check out my review of this book by clicking here 






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